Language

There´s a lot we can talk about ..... around the language of Masturbation particularly penis play.......

In the UK the delightful term "Wanker" is so flexible and useful in so many scenarios but like so many sexual terms unfortunately has all the wrong connotations w.r.t. the true meaning and has quite an uphill climb to be reclaimed.    Again, our sisters - strong spirits alongside us have worked and done well to reclaim "Cunt".    Can we penis players get that far?

Aside from that....

- Playing the pink oboe (or is that only for BJ?)

- Tugging/Jerking

- Choking the Chicken

- Ripping the Head off it

- Furious Wank

- Tossing Off

- Handjob (though that might only apply with a partner?)

All such negative , if funny, references.

As opposed to 

- penis play

- self stroking

- caress to climax

- tease out the tremors